Together with their families

Zhanique & Ben

invite you to celebrate their marriage

Ceremony 4pm NG Kerk Durbanville

Reception 6pm Chocolat Bistro

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RSVP by 7 December

Our story

It all began at the gym

Zhanique and Ben

Some love stories begin with a chance meeting, and ours began somewhere between the weights and workouts of a gym. It was a place where we both showed up to work hard, push our limits, and become better versions of ourselves. Little did we know that one ordinary day would lead to something extraordinary. Ben may have been shaking nervously when he first approached Zhanique, but what followed was worth every nervous step. Beyond the workouts, we discovered something special: a shared mindset, a determination to work hard for the things we wanted, and a belief that the best things in life are worth the effort.

As we got to know each other, our individual journeys began to merge into something greater. We found joy in the little things, from our dates and adventures to the quiet moments spent together. We learned that love is not simply about finding someone who makes you happy, but finding someone who understands your drive, supports your ambitions, and chooses to stand beside you through every challenge. We had each been working towards our own goals, but somewhere along the way, our dreams began to align. What was once about becoming the best versions of ourselves individually became about building something bigger together.

Now, as we prepare to begin this next chapter, we do so with the same determination that brought us together, only with a much greater purpose. We are no longer working towards our dreams separately; we are building a future, a home, and a life that reflects everything we believe in. There will be new goals to chase, adventures to share, challenges to overcome, and countless memories still waiting to be made. And through it all, we will keep doing what brought us here in the first place: showing up, putting in the work, and choosing each other every single day.

We may have met while working on ourselves, but we fell in love with the possibility of everything we could become together.

Where & when

Ceremony & reception

4pm

Ceremony

NG Kerk Durbanville

Church St & Weyers Ave, Durbanville, Cape Town, 7551

Directions

6pm

Reception

Chocolat Bistro

The Birdcage

46 Oxford Street, Durbanville, Cape Town

Cocktail hour starts at 5:30pm.

Directions
The garden at Chocolat Bistro, Durbanville

A cosy bistro in the heart of the wine valley

After the ceremony we head to Chocolat Bistro, a charming spot in Durbanville. We’ll celebrate in the Birdcage, a private space with its own bar and outdoor area.

Colour scheme

Our colours

Dress code: semi-formal

We kindly encourage you to join us in wearing the following colours on our special day.

Details

Good to know

Arriving for the ceremony

The ceremony starts at 4pm at NG Kerk Durbanville. Please be seated before 3:45pm.

No phones during the ceremony

We're having an unplugged ceremony. Please keep phones and cameras away while we say our vows. Snap away as much as you like afterwards.

Adults only

We love your little ones, but our celebration is adults only. The Birdcage seats a small party, so we can only host the guests named on your invitation. Thank you for understanding.

Dinner & drinks

Enjoy a welcome drink and a bite to eat from 5:30pm at Chocolat Bistro while you wait for the newlyweds to arrive. Dinner is a set menu, with a bottle or more of red and white wine on each table. A cash bar will be available throughout the evening.

Parking

There's street parking around the bistro.

Gifts

Your presence is truly the greatest gift. However, should you wish to bless us further, a contribution towards our future together will be appreciated.

RSVP

Will you join us?

Kindly reply by 7 December.

Will you attend?